How should we keep ourselves focused and stay away from all the distractions to achieve our goals?

That is a great question.

And this is exactly what i have answered in my best selling book “Be The Engineer Of Your Life”. And i have given a complete chapter over this topic only.

But till you buy and read my book to read the complete chapter to know how to deal with it, Let me tell you what i have answered to this in little short.

Firat tell me, do you need to ask this question of how to focus while watching T. V.?

OR Do you want ask this to focus while playing games on smartphone?

Doesn't you spend lots of hours on facebook and whatsapp without getting any distraction from other things? Or do you need docus to play your favourite sport?

No you absolutely do not need any advice.. Because you get automated focused over them, because you enjoy them… but when working, or studying, we get distracted, why so?

The answer ia simple, only because we do not ENJOY doing that work.

Do you get it?

Yes we are getting closer to the answer.

That means if we start enjoying what we do to achieve our goals, we will no more be distracted.

But now the BIG question arises.

How to ENJOY your work?

Here i tell you my friend that to enjoy your work, you will have to add something to your habit while working that you enjoy, like if you enjoy music, start litsning to music while working… you can continue working for long time. If you enjoy eating popcorns, you can take a bowl filled with them and keep them by your side and then start working and enjoy popcorn along.

You can read my book for complete guide to focus.

I have also aswered there how to focus on 1 thing.

Regards

Aditya Goel

BE THE ENGINEER OF YOUR LIFE

How do I become self-confident?

Once there was a crow, as you know crow looks ugly black. he used to be very down all the time because of its looks…he used to have inferiority complex deep within him and feel unlucky to be ugly, then one day he saw a white pigeon and he went to her and shared what he felt that you are so beautiful and i am so ugly, how do you feel like?

She said, oh what beauty, i am only white, have you not seen parrot ever, look at the parrot it is so green so beautiful… then crow flies away and find green parrot… he was amazed to see the colorful bird and he said to him that wow you are just awesome… you are green colored and red beak…parrot said really you are impressed by that? Have you never seen a peacock it is so colourful it is multi coloured it's so beautiful?

Now crow gets confused, what!! You mean there is something more beautiful than even you?

Then crow flies away again in the search of most colorful birs peocock… he did not found any… but he kept flying and he landed in a Zoo…crow found the peocock there finally and was really blissed to see that colorful bird… he said oh my god… you are the most beautiful i have even seen really… so colorful you are… how do you feel?

Do you know what did peocock said?

He said yes yes you arw true i am the most colorf bird… but that is why i am behind these iron made bars in a cage… just look at you… you are so free… you are so lucky that ylu can y where evere you want to… no one catches you… no one puts you behind cages… you can do whatever you want… i wish i could get the life you live…with freedom.

The crow then just git up and flied back to his home thinking about himself now… that yes instead of negative points i must look at the positive things i can enjoy…

So my dear friend… my point is that stay positive with what you have… and stop crying for the little you dont have.

Stop complaining and start living stress free life… stay confident enough.

Even when i do not know anything about you, i can gurantee that you must be having something special that anyone else do not have. So use your powers.

All the best.

Regards:

Aditya Goel

Author of “Be The Engineer Of Your Life”

What is mind reading and thought broadcasting?

Mind reading can be understood as the exchange of thoughts between two people without actual communication. When someone has the ability to capture the thoughts of someone without any communication he is called as Mind Reader.

And mind broad casting is the ability in which one can feed his thoughts in the mind of many people without actually communicating.

If I want to end my life, what are the last words you have for me?

I would say that Just Take a look at the faces of your parents for few seconds and think how did they have felt when you were born and they took you in their arms holding you softly.

If you do so, you will change your thought of ending your life instantly.

What might I need to change in myself?

This is the best thing you have done that you have thought of changing yourself instead of changing the world.

Develop a habit of reading good positive motivational and self help books, and you will see a drastic change in yourself by itself.

You are what you think you are…

What's the difference between a life coach and a motivational speaker?

According to me the main difference between them is that a Motivational speaker is like a street light, which shows path to each and everyone passing through… and life coach is like headlight of a car who shows the path to the one driving it and stays with him as long as he go.

How do people read so many books, what thing connect them with books?

I wanted to become author from my childhood age and write some book.

Later in high school time i developed a habit of writing poems about whatever i used to experience good or bad feelings.

I started writing blog after then, and still wanted to write a book some day.

But trust me when finaly i decided to start with my book, i first started reading books about the same topic i wanted to write.

And i read almost 50 books in 1.5 year before i could actually start writing one of my own.

Then i completed my book “Be The Engineer Of Your Life” within 6 months almost which was absolutely different what i read in other books. I wrote conpletely out of my soul.

So the point is that when i read so many books, it changed a lot inside me… brought me closer to my soul… and then what came out was perfection.

So reading books helps you in self growth internally..and brings you closer to your soul.

Which are the best books that teach us lessons of life?

You can start with these top 5 books to grow and learn great lessons of life.

1. Who moved my cheese by Spencer johnson.
2. Connect the dots by Rashmi Bansal
3. Be the engineer of your life by Aditya Goel (Yeah that's me! )
4. See you at the top by Zig Ziglar
5. Be your own pilot by Manish Kumar

All these books are amazing, and very power to bring positive changes to the life of anyone.

But still life is itself the best teacher. :)

Why are motivational speakers important?

No, Motivational speakers are not important. Who told you this that they are?

Well, are headlights of car important to move on the road during night?

If yes then yes motivational speakers are also important.

They help you to just show the right and wrong path you can move on, but it is you who needs to move forward.

Motivational speakers sometimes also work in your life what fuel does to a car. They give you energy and power to move.

Hope you have learned enough importance of a Motivational speaker.

What are the best topics for me to speak on the stage in my class?

You can pick any social problem topic and its solutions. Basically it mainly depends on the type of audience you are going to face for speaking in front of.

You can choose a topic you have enough knowledge about.

Or best is to share your real life experiences which have taught you any good lessons of life.

What should I refrain from speaking in public?

While speaking in public always keep in mind that there is one thing that audience will not like at all...
never try to insult audience and make joke on audience to create humour untill and unless you are a standup comedian.
Always keep this in your mind...

How does a motivational speaker motivate himself/herself?

No one can motivate you untill and unless you motivate yourself.

A motivational speaker also needs self motivation to stay charged up all the time so that he can motivate others.

I can answer this question because i am a motivational book author and speaker. And i can share what i do when i feel down.

Well this works for everyone.

Read good inspirational stories of successful people, read motivational books, watch motivational videos.

And even if this doesnt work for you, you can hire personal life coach. They ensure that you give your best shot on every thing you do. They keeps you motivated all the time.

They will help you set goals every morning, and will ask for how much work done till night.

How motivational speaker earn in India?

Concerning the given question, without stretching my answer uselessly, i tell you the exact answer about it.

In India, to earn handsome amount as a Motivational Speaker you need to 1st build up your credibility so that people invite you for speaking events.

How to build credibility

1. If you are expert in something, you can write a book about it. When you have a book in your hand with your name as author, it automatically gives a good impression.
2. You can start a youtube channel. The more the subscribers on your channel will become a good credibility to you.
3. You can create a personal website presenting you as one Motivational speaker, this is also very powerful tool to showcase what you do and what you can do.
4. You can start speaking at small events for free, when you gain some good experience of speaking on some events, people start trusting your potential.

How to Earn as speaker

As i said before, you must build up your credibility first. Now if you have done that what i have told in above points, you can start the actions given below.

1. Take your book in your hand, and trust me no gate can stop you. Offer your book as a present to any school/college/corporations etc and ask them if they want your services. You can ask for amount you want to charge.
2. You can get in touch with event management groups, and tell them that you are available as motivational speaker. They have clients, and they will bring events for you.
3. You can go to newspapers, and ask them to publish your motivational articles for free. This will give you vast exposure and people will contact you for sure to come and speak for their events.
4. Organize your motivational seminar by your own and put some ticket fee to attend that seminar.

I hope you have gained enough information regarding this, and now just get up and start bringing your thoughts into actions.

And yes you can charge your fee for speaking from Rs5,000 to 5,00,000 or even more for 1 hour depending on the credibility you have attained.