Sunday, June 3, 2018

If I want to end my life, what are the last words you have for me?

I would say that Just Take a look at the faces of your parents for few seconds and think how did they have felt when you were born and they took you in their arms holding you softly.

If you do so, you will change your thought of ending your life instantly.
What might I need to change in myself?

This is the best thing you have done that you have thought of changing yourself instead of changing the world.
Develop a habit of reading good positive motivational and self help books, and you will see a drastic change in yourself by itself.

You are what you think you are…
What's the difference between a life coach and a motivational speaker?

According to me the main difference between them is that a Motivational speaker is like a street light, which shows path to each and everyone passing through… and life coach is like headlight of a car who shows the path to the one driving it and stays with him as long as he go.
How do people read so many books, what thing connect them with books?

I wanted to become author from my childhood age and write some book.
Later in high school time i developed a habit of writing poems about whatever i used to experience good or bad feelings.
I started writing blog after then, and still wanted to write a book some day.
But trust me when finaly i decided to start with my book, i first started reading books about the same topic i wanted to write.
And i read almost 50 books in 1.5 year before i could actually start writing one of my own.
Then i completed my book “Be The Engineer Of Your Life” within 6 months almost which was absolutely different what i read in other books. I wrote conpletely out of my soul.
So the point is that when i read so many books, it changed a lot inside me… brought me closer to my soul… and then what came out was perfection.

So reading books helps you in self growth internally..and brings you closer to your soul.
Which are the best books that teach us lessons of life?

You can start with these top 5 books to grow and learn great lessons of life.
  1. Who moved my cheese by Spencer johnson.
  2. Connect the dots by Rashmi Bansal
  3. Be the engineer of your life by Aditya Goel (Yeah that's me! )
  4. See you at the top by Zig Ziglar
  5. Be your own pilot by Manish Kumar
All these books are amazing, and very power to bring positive changes to the life of anyone.

But still life is itself the best teacher. :)
Why are motivational speakers important?

No, Motivational speakers are not important. Who told you this that they are?
Well, are headlights of car important to move on the road during night?
If yes then yes motivational speakers are also important.
They help you to just show the right and wrong path you can move on, but it is you who needs to move forward.
Motivational speakers sometimes also work in your life what fuel does to a car. They give you energy and power to move.

Hope you have learned enough importance of a Motivational speaker.
What are the best topics for me to speak on the stage in my class?

You can pick any social problem topic and its solutions. Basically it mainly depends on the type of audience you are going to face for speaking in front of.
You can choose a topic you have enough knowledge about.

Or best is to share your real life experiences which have taught you any good lessons of life.
What should I refrain from speaking in public?

While speaking in public always keep in mind that there is one thing that audience will not like at all...
never try to insult audience and make joke on audience to create humour untill and unless you are a standup comedian.
Always keep this in your mind...
How does a motivational speaker motivate himself/herself?

No one can motivate you untill and unless you motivate yourself.
A motivational speaker also needs self motivation to stay charged up all the time so that he can motivate others.
I can answer this question because i am a motivational book author and speaker. And i can share what i do when i feel down.
Well this works for everyone.
Read good inspirational stories of successful people, read motivational books, watch motivational videos.
And even if this doesnt work for you, you can hire personal life coach. They ensure that you give your best shot on every thing you do. They keeps you motivated all the time.

They will help you set goals every morning, and will ask for how much work done till night.

How motivational speaker earn in India?


Concerning the given question, without stretching my answer uselessly, i tell you the exact answer about it.
In India, to earn handsome amount as a Motivational Speaker you need to 1st build up your credibility so that people invite you for speaking events.
How to build credibility
  1. If you are expert in something, you can write a book about it. When you have a book in your hand with your name as author, it automatically gives a good impression.
  2. You can start a youtube channel. The more the subscribers on your channel will become a good credibility to you.
  3. You can create a personal website presenting you as one Motivational speaker, this is also very powerful tool to showcase what you do and what you can do.
  4. You can start speaking at small events for free, when you gain some good experience of speaking on some events, people start trusting your potential.
How to Earn as speaker
As i said before, you must build up your credibility first. Now if you have done that what i have told in above points, you can start the actions given below.
  1. Take your book in your hand, and trust me no gate can stop you. Offer your book as a present to any school/college/corporations etc and ask them if they want your services. You can ask for amount you want to charge.
  2. You can get in touch with event management groups, and tell them that you are available as motivational speaker. They have clients, and they will bring events for you.
  3. You can go to newspapers, and ask them to publish your motivational articles for free. This will give you vast exposure and people will contact you for sure to come and speak for their events.
  4. Organize your motivational seminar by your own and put some ticket fee to attend that seminar.
I hope you have gained enough information regarding this, and now just get up and start bringing your thoughts into actions.
And yes you can charge your fee for speaking from Rs5,000 to 5,00,000 or even more for 1 hour depending on the credibility you have attained.